My mischievious...Rayaan Toh

Hello !

Lovely Readers...

It's been so long for my entry ....

Hmmm..everyday is a routine for me ...

Home -> Work -> Home (Weekday)

Home-> Out with Family (Weekend)

Hubby said , Rayaan is afraid of me.

But I don't think Rayaan is afraid of me..

But he listens to me.

For me, Whenever Rayaan is mischievious,

I will give him 3 chances.

1st - i will say : Rayaan, Don't do it.

2nd  - "Rayaan, It's wrong for you to do it again."

3rd - i will went forward to him , beat his palm once

& stop whatever he is doing,

& carry him to a wall that he can lean.

I will say: "Rayaan , do you know why mummy carry you & place you here?

Because Mummy have given you 3 chances to stop doing the wrong thing,

but you didnt stop. (And i explain to him what he did is wrong.)"

I let him lean against the wall for a few sec,

bcos he starts to do funny movements, 

sometimes even cried very pitiful,

 but i ignore his Movements & cries.

I strictly told him ,

"Rayaan , do you still want to do it again?"

He will shake his head & hug me & say :"Mama!"

Isn't he sweet ?

Simply just Love him so much...

Another issue is ,

Yesterday ,

I asked hubby to company me &

 Rayaan for a walk

to Vista point because

I want to buy apples.

Rayaan insisted to walk by his own,

 so we didnt push the stroller.

On our way to vista point,

 I told Rayaan to hold hubby's hand.

He did. But Kids is kids.

We've walk along blocks,

Rayaan playing catching with hubby.

And when he hide & wanna scare hubby,

 he will jump out

& cover his mouth when

he's laughing out loud.

Children is naive,innocents,just enjoy everyday to play with parents.

Then , i told Hubby,

Rayaan listens to us

if we told him nicely ,

instead of shouting at him.

We should be more patients towards him.

When he've done wrong things,

We should carry him & go to 1 corner to tell him what he've did,

& why are we lecturing him.

He's only a 2 yrs old child ,

 but to me,

He's understands.

When Rayaan is out shopping alone with me,

he is very obedient.

But when he saw my bros,

my aunties they all,
He loves to play with them ,

therefore

they tends to be more mischievious.

We can't blame them bcos they are KIDS.

I thanked God for giving us ,

our child /children.

They have let us learnt to be

 more patients, more sensible,

more responsible,

more communication towards families,

more loving ,

 & became a complete new person.

Our characters will change ,

 attitudes will change,

 perspectives will change..

many things change.

Change to be a better person,

at least for me ! =)

Now, with additional member...

Mini "R" Toh...in 2011.

I hope we "Toh's Family"

can be much more better..

Having a family , it's not an easy tasks.

But I knew we can DO IT!

Bcos ... LOVE Conquers every difficulties !

=) ok enough of my Theory !

Let's view the photos ... haaahaa...

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When for my 4th appointments with my Gynae.

Dr Ang scanned said Most likely is "BOY!"

We are Happy !

We just hope Mini "R" Toh growing healthy in my tummy ...

& as you can see below, I've lose weight..

Some said due to Stress ? hmmm..

Dunno ley...bcos I quite fussy for my 2nd pregnancy...

I meant meals.

At 26th Nov, I'm going for my detailed scanning

at Thomson Medical Clinic..

Oppsss...! So excited ...bcos can view

Mini "R" Toh movements & everything ..

Mini "R' Toh , you gonna grow healthy... ok? =)

We Love You !

Saw my Mini "R" Toh ? =)

I love him ...

4th month Tummy ! =P

My Michievious Rayaan in Action !

But he's showing his Sexy Juicy Butts....!!

Haaahaaa..

Hmmm... at Mon i dreamt of my Dad.

It's a sweet & warmth dream.

The place is at Yishun (my old house),

Dad , is just like last time so fair.

He asked me,

"You pregnant huh? A Boy , is it ?"

He was so happy & smiling widely.

Just like the 1st pregnancy ,

when he got to know the news from me.

But now, he's forever away from us...

I've regretted not telling him about my 2nd Pregnancy &

not in a good terms with him after I'm married.

Dad ...I miss you so badly, you know?

We missing you so much , you know?

Mummy will shed tears whenever she's thought of you, you know?

We just miss you so much...

you've gonna be safe & sound in other world ..

as I heard from Mummy that she dreamt of you telling her that ,

you don't willing to leave us ...

BCOS, Behind there are "others" pulling you , don't wanna let go..

& somemore , your age is fated to go...

Dad...You gonna be Safe & sound in another world..

we'll be praying for your good paths & do more good things...

Dad...don't worry..

We'll take good care of Mummy , Bros ..

We Love You !